Praising People - A Game To Generate Comments To Praise People

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Praising People - A Game To Generate Comments To Praise People

Ken Blanchard a famous 'leadership guru' has written several books on this area of 'praising people'

He describes it as 'gotcha' in his book 'Whale Done'. Normally we associate the word 'gotcha' as being associated with 'catching beople making a mistake'. Ken has identified it with exactly the opposite sentiment - 'catch them doing right'.

The concept works excellently, if you know what to do once you 'catch them doing right'. Many of us fail at the point of saying the right thing when we 'catch them doing right'.

We end up saying inane things or make very general praise comments like 'Hey that was great!' or 'Great work!' etc. These comments do not help at all. People generally brush it aside as being opportunistic or phoney.

So what do we say and how do we say it. Ken Blanchard provides a format for praising in his book 'One Minute Manager' called 'One Minute Praise'. It has three components:

• Feeling: How do you feel about the observed behaviour? Do you feel excited/happy/encouraged/relieved? Express this feeling. Say something like: 'I am happy about the way you took initiative back there.'
• Behaviour: Describe the behaviour that you observed. Say something like: 'Your initiative has brought this ... loophole to the company's notice. We will be able to prevent the ... problem that we have been facing.
• Praise: Having expressed your feeling and described the behaviour, it is now time to praise. Now you can say something like: 'Your ability to take initiative is an important part of making our team successful. I look forward to seeing you take other initiatives.'

The difficult part in the above model is to express your feeling. Its easy to do the second and the third part when you have taken the trouble to do the first part authentically.

Praising People: An Activity

Here's an activity to develop a resource of positive feelings that your team members can bring up in you.

Form groups of five to eight members each. Ask each group to develop a list of areas that excellent performance is exhibited. Some areas have been listed here as samples.

• Initiative
• Solutions
• Trouble Shooting
• Customer Handling
• Innovation
• Punctuality

Praising People Activity: Stage Two

Use the areas listed in stage 1 as pegs for stage two. In Stage two ask the groups to list down a set of positive feelings, that praiseworthy behaviors - in the above areas - will engender.

Feelings like 'excitement', 'satisfaction', 'relief', 'encouragement', 'happiness', 'joy', 'charged', 'wanted', 'respected', 'awed' etc.

It is likely that there will be some repeats in the charts of the different groups. Inspite of that you can have a considerably long list. Type these lists out and the managers and leaders of the company can use them to genuinely praise their people.

Initially, one tends to use the lists mechanically. With a little practice though, praise will start to become specific and authentic.

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